Happy, Blessed New Year! Reflections of a Roman Catholic Woman Priest

If you are reading this you are blessed to enter another New Year- 2024. Wow! For those of us who thought entering the Millenium year, 2000, was a major blessing we are now amazed that it is almost a quarter of a century after that. Thanks be to God for time marching on, and us with it. And thanks be to God for the events of the past year that have brought us here, and for the hope of a new year.

Harry Gary, friend and member of our Good Shepherd Ministry wrote me this morning with wishes and prayers for the new year emphasizing “It is NEW!” Yes, there is something about new chances for life that are God’s most wonderful gift! Having just celebrated his 72nd birthday Mr. Gary was thankful for all that brought him to that moment, including his connection to our Ministry-from the beginning in 2007 when he did not have his own home. His last eight years have had wonderful stability in affordable housing and several medical challenges. He is particularly thankful for his home and for coming through each of those challenges and for the strength and faith to deal with the changes in vision that are a current issue. Mr. Gary is such a man of faith and hope that it is always uplifting to walk and talk with him. In the picture below taken when we still had our house church site, Mr. Gary is standing with a black shirt and cross on. The young man next to him is Quay Crews, who is now his neighbor in the Ohio Place Housing Complex. Mr. Gary is a church father in his life and both enjoy being neighbors.

As I look at the picture above, I am also saddened to report that we lost three of our dear members to heaven within the last few years. I know that they are enjoying glory with Jesus after difficult lives here. But our church members miss them still. Grandma Jolinda Harmon who brought countless new members to the church is with Jesus now. Lauretta Rasmussen, like Gary was one of our oldest and most faithful members. She, and Joe Baker, striped shirt behind her, both loved their housing and their relationships in the community and with family, and both succumbed to cancer. In this picture we were celebrating the life of Pastor Judy Beaumont. When Lauretta was passing she held my hand and said that she was happy to be joining Pastor Judy Beaumont who helped her find the path to eternal life. I can just see Judy welcoming Lauretta and Joe and our other deceased members and friends to the heavenly kindom where they are with Love forever. Judy was close with my beloved lifelong friend Jean Cornella Bauer who passed suddenly two years ago and I am sure they are together again now. And my childhood friend Jean Tracy Foreman was welcomed home by Judy too. I miss them so much but my heart is still full with their love. Below are Jean Cornella Bauer and Judy and me.

We are happy for the young girls in the first picture, Quay’s cousins, who are teenagers now. And for all of our young people like Quay’s siblings who are wishing us Happy New Year this year. It is a good feeling to know that faith continues through the generations. Below are Maya Rismay Cummings and her daughter Kimora. I am blessed as they live here in Fort Myers and faithfully visit and keep in touch. Judy Beaumont and I helped mentor Maya and Felice and to help raise their older siblings, Perdita, Marley and Channel while living in Connecticut. Maya’s sister Felice and her son Daniel (Bubs) visit too but they live in Connecticut. Marley, Maya’s older brother, and wife Jen and his three children also live in Connecticut and visit here. It is such fun to enjoy the younger generations.

Below are Maya and Kimora who visited yesterday, 12/31/2023. Kimora especially loved visiting with our cat Finn.

Below are Felice and Bubs, and Marley and his daughter MyaLee. He also has two sons, Marley Jr. and Matthew Jude.

How blessed we are to enjoy the love and faith of the younger generations.

We are also so blessed to be able to continue our ministry here in Fort Myers. In the pictures below, taken in early December we see Brenda and her roommate Terri and one of her dogs. Brenda has been with our Good Shepherd Ministry like Mr. Gary since the beginning in 2007. Here she is in her own home with Terri and four pets and our member Carol Schauf and I are visiting them for Christmas. Carol is a wonderful mentor for Brenda.

We are thankful that our Good Shepherd relationships are active now.

We are also so thankful for the friends and family who remain loving in our lives. Below are Danielle and Laura whom we visited in New York. Laura, in the pink shirt, is now in a wonderful Orthodox Jewish Residential setting where she finally feels at home and can practice her faith. We are so happy for her and for the love and care that Danielle is able to give her. Indeed we are family more than friends.

And we are so thankful for family that continues to love and support us. At my age there is more family in heaven than here, but Jackie and Mike and Cousin Bob and family are still there to hold onto me here.

Above are Jackie and Mike with me.  And below are Cousin Bob and his family and our cousin Lillian Dougherty Ebner as well.

And so we end this year and begin our new year 2024 thankful for love, for friends and family human and pet as well, and ministry, We are mindful of those, human and pet, that have gone home to God and so thankful for their lives. And we are so grateful for God’s glorious creation that renews us each day. And we especially thank God for those who remain with us for 2024.

THANK YOU, LOVING GOD, FOR ALL THE GIFTS OF 2023 AND THE HOPES FOR 2024. THANKYOU FOR THOSE WE HAVE LOST HERE AND FOR THOSE WHO REMAIN WITH US. THANK YOU FOR LIFE IN ALL OF ITS SHAPES, FORMS AND ESSENCES. THANK YOU FOR LOVE THAT IS FOREVER. THANK YOU FOR YESTERDAY, TODAY AND TOMORROW IN YOUR LOVE.

BLESSINGS TO ALL AS WE WELCOME IN 2024, AND ALL THAT IS NEW AND GOOD TO COME.

LOVE AND BLESSINGS,

Pastor Judy Lee, RCWP

Good Shepherd Ministries of Southwest Florida

January 1, 2024

What or Who Are You Waiting For? Reflections of a Roman Catholic Woman Priest

It seems that we are always waiting for something or someone. Today I was waiting for the phone call of a dear friend from long ago so we can catch up on our lives. She had the women’s basketball game on in the background and was waiting to see how the UConn Huskies were doing. And she was waiting to find a new pet for her life-a senior pet for a senior person. As we talked we were both waiting for a special Christmas Show to come on TV later in the day. We also hoped for the time we could visit. All things worth waiting for. In this season we wait for the joy and excitement of the Christmas spirit in the very air we breathe. People seem more caring, and happier. Days seem brighter. Hope is in the air. Another friend is waiting to hear about a job, while my cousin Bob is awaiting his fifth great grand child! And I eagerly await for my love to visit later this month. Much that I plan is with that visit in mind. And so it is a natural and necessary part of life to wait, to anticipate, to hope.

Hope is exactly what the season of ADVENT that begins today is all about. The first of the four Advent candles is lighted. And we have three weeks of hoping ( the purple candles) and one of Joy ( The pink candle) as we anticipate the coming of Jesus on that first Christmas so long ago. During these weeks of waiting we hope to rekindle the faith to renew the world. We look to find ways to enact our faith and reach out to others in need of the true Christ-mas. We prepare for three comings: the birthday of the Christ of Christ-mas; the second coming of Christ, our Life and Redeemer of a broken world; and our own personal time of meeting the Lord when we are summonsed home. Most importantly in this season of Advent we work at keeping our hearts ready for our God’s appearance in our everyday lives.

On Saturday our Gospel reading warns us not to let our hearts “become drowsy….with the anxieties of everyday life” so that we miss the coming of Jesus (Luke 21:34). It is all too easy to become caught up in our lives so that we miss seeing God’s appearance. And in today’s Gospel Jesus tells us to “Be watchful! Be alert!” We do not know when Jesus will appear and we may be found sleeping so “Watch!” (Mark 13:33-37). In a busy holiday season as in our busy lives we become drowsy and fall asleep all too easily. And rest is important and can renew us, but our “drowsiness” may also overtake our interest and willingness to meet Jesus as He comes, in the faces of all we meet, in the faces of those we love and those who love us, and especially in the faces of the most needy around us, or in the wider world. When we see the face of our loved ones our hearts quicken and wake up so that we can reciprocate and initiate love.

May this Advent be a time when we rouse from the dullness or drowsiness that blinds us from seeing the face of Christ in our very midst. May we pray and meditate and read the Scriptures and other writings that open our hearts to meeting Jesus as he comes to us this Advent season. May we simply open our eyes and look around us with the eyes of love. Then Love will come to us on Christmas.

I look at this picture of our Good Shepherd Community of Christmas 11 years ago and am so thankful for the six beloved ones who are our angels now, guiding us from above. Oh, how we must love as we can every minute of every day. May we remain alert and watchful for the opportunity to love and serve. And to remain thankful for all the faces of Christ here and all around us that remain to guide and love us here and now.

May our loving God bless you this Advent season.

Pastor Judy Lee, RCWP

The Good Shepherd Community in Fort Myers, Florida

12/3/2023

Use It Or Lose It: Reflections of a Roman Catholic Woman Priest

When we work hard and manage to accomplish what we have set out to do there is great joy when we receive praise like: ” Well done!” It is human to want affirmation. Likewise, when we have not been successful, we hope the effort counts for something- at the very least we may learn from it. In the parable Jesus gives us today, sometimes called the Parable of the Talents (Matthew 25: 14-30) Jesus teaches us to fully use the gifts that we have been given. He does praise both great success and effort. What he does not value is “making no effort”.

“Talents” in this parable means money given to a man’s servants when he went away and entrusted them with his property. Each of three servants is given talents to care for according to his abilities. The first two invest the talents and double the money for the Master who entrusted them. But the third one buries his one talent in fear of the master’s wrath should he lose it, and is admonished by the master when he returns. The first hear the words we all long to hear: “Well done, you good and faithful servant”. They are told that because of their actions they will be put in charge of many things. But the third has the talent taken from him and additionally will be punished severely and eternally for not using it. He is called a “wicked and lazy servant”. I have often felt badly for this man. He didn’t squander or lose what he was given, but he didn’t do anything with it. There were no points for not squandering it, or not misusing it. He was to use it or lose it. The master in this parable is not Jesus, despite the fact I heard a priest say it was Jesus this morning. The master is a mean and dishonest, unscrupulous boss. Very human indeed. He wants money made on his investments and punishes if it is not made. Jesus is using this example to make a point. The point is well beyond any material things we have been entrusted with. if we broaden being entrusted with material goods to mean the gifts we have been given to serve our loving God and one another we may understand better why it is serious,and a profound loss, not to use our gifts.

What are the various types of gifts we each have? Indeed, they are different for each of us, and unique to who we are. Think of your friends and family members,. What are their varied gifts? And, what defines them and makes them unique. What is it that each one can uniquely do or be? And what would it be like if they ignored the very gifts they were given to be themselves and to be useful and caring in this world? And also think of yourself. What have you been given? And, yes, what have you done with it?

I think of my Grandmother. She had a gift of making everyone laugh. this was wonderful in a life that was sometimes hard with economic and other problems that seemed insurmountable. Better still, she had the gift of finding the good in everyone without minimizing the problems they clearly struggled with. And she had an unshakeable faith in our loving God. She prayed often and Jesus was her best friend. She had the gift of teaching this abiding faith along with so many other things. Family, friends and neighbors sought her out for her special depth and wisdom. This dear woman living often in poverty with only an eighth grade education was the wisest person I will ever know- and the most giving person. Indeed, she often gave the proverbial shirt off her back to anyone who needed it. She used her talents well and while she was not rich in material goods, she was easily the richest person I have ever known.

My Mother too was such a special person. She was both brilliant and beautiful. She achieved academically and could hold important jobs when she was well. She struggled with mental illness in a day that medications did nothing to alleviate thinking that went awry and feelings that were not easy to manage. But her gift was seeing the beauty in the world. She was a gifted artist and she saw art in nature, and in animals and in flowers, especially. She saw it in people others dismissed. She was trotally charitable to others in her thoughts. She painted beautiful large paintings of flowers and the scenes around her, especially the sea and trees and nature. Her great joy was exhibiting her work at the Washington Square Art Show each year. And she was also a completely loyal person, especially to her daughter. I was blessed with her constant support.

And I think now of the gift of joy and smiles and acceptance on my love’s face that means so much to everyone around her, especially to me. I think of the wise counsel of another friend and the gift of listening and always being there for me of another. I think of the gift of asking good questions that a few of my friends have had, questions that make you think and clarify your thoughts. I remember Pastor Mel Williams who asked probing questions ensconced in love. And Pastor Dave Ver Nooy whose genuine warmth and compassion opened the doors cross culturally and softened many hard hearts. I think of friends who make art, and music and poetry to open the soul. I think of the gift of caring of another friend who calls just to see how her friends are doing. I think of another friend who makes sure I have all needed groceries in. And I think of an old friend, a dear man who makes sure all that is practical in living is done well. His ability to be a good friend extends this gift to all he knows.

There are so many wonderful gifts in life. I have not even begun to touch them here. You must name them for yourself. And Jesus wants us to own our gifts and use them toward building the kingdom of God on this earth. The opposite is to live only or mainly for ones’ self and indeed, that which was not used seems to be lost in self-absorbed people. Yet it is never too late. We can take stock of our gifts and use them well. And we can give thanks for the gifts of others that enrich our lives.

I am so thankful for the gifts of those around me and those before and now in my life. I am thankful for my gifts. And here I am thankful for and trying to use the gift of writing that lets me say what cannot so easily be said. Hopefully, it can touch someone or lift someone up. Or even just inspire a few thoughts, or thankfulness. Thanksgiving is every day. Yet on Thanksgiving Thursday we are reminded every year how good it is to give thanks, thanks to God, for God’s unending love, for Jesus, for the Gospel and the Holy Scriptures, for the many gifts we are given and thanks to one another.

As we approach the day of Thanksgiving let us take the time to appreciate the gifts of others all around us, and to cultivate and use the gifts deep within us.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING to all! I am truly thankful for you!

Love and blessings,

Pastor Judy Lee, RCWP

Good Shepherd Ministries, Fort Myers, Florida

11/19/2023

What’s Love Got To Do With It? Reflections of a Roman Catholic Woman Priest

Everything! Dear Tina Turner, the answer is that love has everything to do with human relationships and responsibilities and possibilities in this world. In 1984 Tina Turner , “the Queen of Rock ‘n’ Roll”, emotionally belted out Lyle and Britten’s song “What’s Love Got to Do With It?” and made it her own and a number one hit on the charts earning her first Grammy of several to come and a biographical movie of the same name. In the song love is called a “sweet old-fashioned notion” and the question is asked: “Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken?’ Yet there is a longing for the one who makes her feel this “love”. The song is about the vicissitudes of romantic love yet that, however wonderful it can be and yet challenging, is only one aspect of LOVE. We also experience the love of family and friends and for many passions and causes throughout our lives. We may also love God’s creation and seek out natural and spiritual moments in nature where the feeling is simply love. We may feel a grateful love for our animals and pets. We may feel a deep loving thank you for the God that gave us this beautiful world to live in and all that makes up love in our lives.

We love God’s Creation:

Defining love is the essence of the Sunday Scriptures this week. The reading from the Hebrew Scriptures: Exodus (22;20-26) sums up our responsibility to migrants and aliens in our land, to widows and orphans, and even to those who need to borrow or receive money from us. It stresses God’s compassion for those in need and for all vulnerable ones, asking the same of those who say they love God. The Psalm( 18:2-4,47,51) refrain is “I love you, Lord, my strength.” And the Epistle (I Thessalonians 1:5-10) asks us to be a model for all believers-to prove our faith by our ACTIONS (verse 4-TIB). LOVE IS ACTION! not just sentiment of any sort.

As I look up to the shelf above my desk right now I see two reminders of what love is. The first is a broken pink cup with a lavender heart that says “Mother is another word for love”, and the second is a set of bookends that says “God is Love” (I John 4:16). The cup was a gift I gave to my own dear Mother many years ago. And I grew up with the heavy metal bookends as one of very few prized possessions in my Grandmother’s house. On an economic scale we were working class and sometimes very poor, but we were rich in love and faith. The bookends, rested on the mantle and I saw them every day of my young life. Of course, thinking of my Grandmother and my Mother defines love for me even better than the words can. Their love was expressed in their every action and taught me how to love and in very different ways. And I am blessed.

Love is an essence and a longing we all feel, for love in the romantic sense, yes, thankfully, for some, but for love in all of its manifestations as well. For caring and care, for reaching out to others when it is hard to do, for taking on difficult causes with justice and peace at their base, and for being a friend, wife, husband, parent, daughter, son, or other relative, a pet parent, or even a good neighbor. We must all feel cared for and cherished and we must all do some things that are hard to do because of love. We must grapple with the meaning of love in our lives-what does it mean “to love”? What do love’s actions look like?

Jesus gave us the answer so long ago, summing up the Law of the Hebrews, the Commandments, he said:

“You must love the Most High God with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your mind. That is the greatest and first commandment. The second is like it: You must love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments the whole Law is based–and the Prophets as well”. Matthew 22:34-40 (TIB).

This love is all encompassing not put in a corner of our lives and reserved only for those close to us-it permeates all of our living and doing and interacting with, for and about others, about the good of the other, about justice. It includes what we DO for “the least of these”, not only what we may give in the collection plate. It includes our social and political and economic choices and actual actions that work toward equality-for the poor being poor no more, for the vulnerable gaining strength, for the different and stigmatized to be accepted as equal in God’s sight, and for those on the bottom of society to move up to the top in equality. When John 3:16 tells us that “God so loved the world that God gave the Only Begotten One….to save the world” “the world” includes not a select few- but EVERYONE in it! To love includes our job of sharing God’s love for all, by being God’s love for all, however challenging that may be.

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all will know you are my disciples, if you love one another.” (John 13: 34).

Some of God’s Beautiful Good Shepherd Family

As I reflect on love I like this quote from Rev. Dr. Jane Shaw , Dean of Grace Cathedral , San Francisco in her Love and Listening:

“Here is a simple truth of the Christian faith: God made us, God loves us and God accepts us as we are. We did not have to earn our creation, and we do not have to earn God’s love. But God is delighted when we respond to that love. If we are to bring that love to others, then we must know something of what it means to be vulnerable with one another and vulnerable with God.”

Indeed, C.S. Lewis said that “To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart certainly will be wrung and possibly broken….” I think that this applies to all types of loving. For loving inevitably involves losing and that is so often heart breaking. I lost one of my older kitties this week. His name was Brother Maurus, named by Judy Beaumont and her Sister friend (from the Benedictine’s) Sr. Johnette Sawyer. He was sixteen but only had been ill for a few days. Though I have several kitties, that is of no matter for loss is loss, and he is gone-along with Judy and Sister Johnette. His kitty sister Elana (named for my Grandma Ella and Mom Anna) is looking for him everywhere. Her meowing searching is hard to hear. Yes, animal families too have a hard time parting. I think of the happy day when Johnette visited us and Maurus was named. I like to think of them together in heaven now. Loss is hard whether it is an animal or person, missing someone dear, or even a time of life. As we face aging we accept many losses even as we have some gains-of perspective and , yes, possibly, wisdom and new chances at love and life.

C.S. Lewis continues about loving: to keep your heart safe from breaking “You must give it to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it up carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries, avoid all entanglements, lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket-safe, dark, motionless, airless-it will change. It will not be broken, it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable”.

So, my friends, if you are brave enough to love you are blessed and redeemed with a heart capable of loving and of being broken. Let us thank God for that! Let us risk it, let us love one another as Jesus showed us how to do.-“Love one another as I have loved you”.

Love and blessings, Pastor Judy Lee, RCWP

The Good Shepherd Community in Fort Myers, Florida

10/28/23

Thinking About St. Francis: Reflections of a Roman Catholic Woman Priest

This week, on October 4th, 2023, the Church celebrated the life of St. Francis of Assisi known as the saint of the poor, all animals and the environment. A once very wealthy12th century man, he heard God’s voice telling him to rebuild the church and he became poor and developed an order of 5 thousand followers. He is known for loving and serving all of God’s creation and for Christ’s stigmata on his loving hands!

I have written other blogs about him and his influence on my life and ministry. Two others are: “For Those With St. Francis’ Heart” (July 8,2018) and “A Saint For Our Times: A Woman Roman Catholic Priest ‘s Reflections on the Feast of St. Francis.” October 4, 2018.

He is one of my favorite saints and an inspiration for my life. I can only aspire to his caring, his love and his gentleness toward all people and all of creation. I am often particularly moved by his inclusion of all animals in his caring. To St. Francis all beings are brothers and sisters. Oh what a different world it would be if all of us cared for our brothers and sisters.

These two, Mama in the rear, are part of a whole family of seven kittys given to me fifteen years ago by a homeless man that I worked with in the local park. Often the homeless adopt homeless pets but this man knew he could no longer take care of the cats that his wife adopted before finding indoor housing for herself alone. He had inadvertently stepped on one and killed it and he was distraught. Three kittens were quickly adopted but Mamacat, whom he called Lady Guinevere, and four others remained with me as they had Feline AIDS and people were frightened to adopt them. Now I know that the kittens can go into remission and they did after a year and a half, and that Feline AIDS kittys are not a threat to other cats unless there is a major fight with deep bites. While I rescue many, there has never been such a fight here, but sadly, no one wants older cats. So here they enjoy a restful day.

And below, Marco Polo, now 8, who was brought here as a kitten by his father, Big Benny, with his Mom and brother little Benny, is asking about dinner. The kittens were so tiny as the parents led them over a city block to my house every day to eat. Marco was adventurous exploring everything as he travelled here, hence his name. HIs father was sick and would not come in with them. A few months later he lived on our front porch and I cared for him there until he died of feline leukemia. It still amazes me that Benny found a home for his family before he succumbed to illness. Because his mother Bonnie remained frightened the two kittens took a long time to trust so could not be placed like the many kittens I have placed. But I am still hoping for a home for them.

May you and your beloved pets, and all beings that are in difficult circumstances or without food or homes be under the care of our loving God-and under the care St. Francis showed us to give.

Bless you all,

Rev. Dr. Judy Lee, RCWP

Pastor Good Shepherd Ministries, Fort Myers, Florida

Moved with Compassion: Reflections of a Roman Catholic Woman Priest

” YHWH (our Loving God) you are gracious and compassionate,

slow to anger and rich in love.

YHWH you are good to all and compassionate to all your creatures.” Psalm 145:8-9 TIB.

“How you love justice, YHWH!

You are always on the side of the oppressed….

You are tender and compassionate, YHWH...” Psalm 103:6,8

We are so blessed. Compassion is the very nature of God, our Creator, our Father/Mother. And it is the nature of Jesus, the Christ, the Son of the Living God who has sent the Holy Spirit to convict us about and show us God’s work here on earth AND TO ENABLE US TO DO THIS LOVING WORK.

The story of the widow of Nain is a passage that reveals Jesus’ compassion to us and it is one of my favorite New Testament passages.

Jesus, followed by a huge crowd enters the city of Nain.

“As he approached the town gate a dead person was being carried out-the only son of his mother, and she was a widow….”‘ When Jesus saw her, “his heart went out to her and he said ,”don’t cry”. Then he went up and touched the coffin, and those carrying it stood still. He said, “Young man,I say to you,get up”! The dead man sat up and began to talk and Jesus gave him back to his mother. They were all filled with awe, and praised God…they said “God has come to help his people”. This news about Jesus spread…” ” Luke 7:11-17 (NIV).

Unlike some of the Gospel stories about Jesus’ healing where people reach out to touch Jesus literally and figuratively, here, it is Jesus who is moved by what he saw, and Jesus who reached out to the grieving and hopeless woman. Jesus, whose heart is made of compassion could not bear her grief and desperation for surely she had no means now of caring for herself. Jesus comforts her and then restores the life of her son. She did not need to know him or even to ask him. He knew her and her great pain and gently reached out to her. It is no wonder that the crowd felt that God was visiting them. Indeed, God was!

Oh, how good it is to know that even when we don’t have the words to pray because we hurt so much, God is there, God knows our hurt and our needs, and God will reach out with comfort and with what we need to survive. Oh, how blessed we are.

It is important to note that there are many places in the Gospels where Jesus is moved with compassion, or teaches about compassion. For example, Matthew 14:14; Mark 1:41, 6:34, 8:2 and Luke 7:13. In some places he is amazed that although God has shown us such great compassion that we are not so compassionate with others. Indeed, we may pass by on the other side like the priest and religious men who left the beaten man on the side of the road while a non-Jew, a Samaritan, tended to him compassionately (Luke 10:25-37). Jesus defines this beaten and dying man as our neighbor and asks for our compassion: “Go and do likewise.”

What moves you? What touches your heart and soul? What opens your heart to others?

For, to minister to those who Jesus loves, to do likewise, we need to see what is before us with the eyes of Jesus.

Sometimes the days come and go and it is almost by rote that we go through them. We finish our work. We follow schedules that order our lives. We attend to those in our families and seek our creature comforts. And so the days pass by, one folding into the other.

And yet, on occasion, we look up and see with new eyes. Our hearts and minds experience something or someone that moves us out of ourselves and our routines to really seeing and responding to someone else or something else. We are truly moved-to regard, to love, to give of ourselves, to reach out, to attend to that which is compelling. We are filled with compassion. And God’s love pours through us to reach the needs of others.

My life’s work, calling, was revealed to me one late night in the early 1980’s after a long day of teaching at NYU School of Social Work in the heart of Greenwich, Village, New York City. I had been a social worker for many years, and a Professor of Social Work for 5-6 years then. I loved social work practice and I loved teaching it. But this was to be a calling within the call to “help others”, especially the most marginalized. To walk to work every day I passed through Washington Square Park and the park was increasingly filled with homeless men and women sleeping on the benches and living in the park. As I walked through the park I sometimes talked with some of its residents. My heart was uneasy because of them. This night I could not sleep so I got up and read my Bible as I often did. Jesus’ own “call” in Luke 4:14-21 pierced my heart.

Jesus was teaching in the Synagogue in Nazareth and a scroll of Isaiah was handed to him to read. “Unrolling it, he found the place where it is wtritten:

The Spirit of the Lord is on me,

Because he has anointed me

to preach good news to the poor….

to release the oppressed,

to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”

“Then he rolled up the scroll, gave it back to the attendant and sat down. The eyes of everyone in the synagogue were fastened on him, and he began by saying “Today this scripture is fulfilled in your hearing.”

I placed my head on the Bible on my desk and stretched my hands out before me and prayed. When I finished the tearful prayer, I knew that I was called to minister to the homeless. The faces in the park appeared to me and I knew what I had to do. I did not know how I would do it, but I went to sleep knowing what I was called to do. The next day I mobilized my friends at NYU to join me in exploring how we could respond to the homeless before us. For my part, I located the two nearby women’s Shelters and volunteered my time there. The rest is history-serving the homeless became the rest of my life. My move to the University of Connecticut SSW in 1984 continued that work and I was blessed to join my life with Judy Beaumont who was the Director of My Sister’s Place, a four tiered shelter for homeless women, and families and men in 1988. Our move to Florida in 1998 continued that work and allowed us to do it full time. However hard it often was, we loved our work with the homeless and poor here.

In 2008, I was ordained a Roman Catholic Woman Priest and Judy Beaumont and I developed Good Shepherd Ministries of Southwest Florida to serve the homeless and poor in Fort Myers. ( She was ordained a Roman Catholic Woman Priest in 2012.) In 2010 I wrote a book about this compelling work entitled COME BY HERE: CHURCH WITH THE POOR, (Judith A.B. Lee) and it is available on Kindle. In this work we received so much more than we gave, and the ministry continues.

A picture of some leaders in our Good Shepherd Community: Our Deacon, Hank Tessandori stands between Ann Palmer and Pastor Judy Beaumont, both now home with God. Judy Alves, Harry Gary and Phyllis Williams are to my right.

Above: Carol Schauf and I celebrate Brenda Cummings’ birthday last week. Brenda, in the middle standing, has been with Good Shepherd since 2008.

As you identify what moves you, and how you might give of yourself and your goods to help others you will find answers for you based on your own uniqueness and gifts. there are so many ways to give back to our loving God. So what moves you?

My dear Cousin Jackie Marion is moved by the plights of animals who are to be euthanized unless caring people step up and donate to keep their care going, or, to adopt them. She was on fire when she described her mission for the animals to me. And, she was happy to be retired now so she could devote herself to this mission. She said “”…Now that I am retired I found my dream and purpose”. So all of the energy she devotes to fund raising and following animals in trouble, to donating and raising public awareness is a great joy to her. And many of the the dear pets, both dogs and cats, remain alive because of her compassion. She volunteers for several animal serving agencies, but mainly for Friends of Cumberland County AnimalS , North Carolina. She pledges for them and shares on Facebook and elsewhere. She found her calling and she said a resounding YES! And she is full of joy!

Below -One of the dogs Jackie helped to get into a No-Kill Rescue Shelter where she can live until adopted !!! Way to go Friends of Cumberland County AnimalS and Jackie!

God loves all of Creation and all Creatures great and small. Thanks be to God!

I am sure God is delighted when an animal’s life is saved.

Below Jackie, in the middle is with her husband Mike and me.

And I also know that God is delighted when each of us finds our own way to serve creation with compassion.

May God bless you as you discover your own callings and gifts.

Rev. Dr. Judy Lee,RCWP

Good Shepherd Ministries Fort Myers, Florida

By The Sea: Reflections of a Roman Catholic Woman Priest

This should be more aptly called “by the Water”-for any body of water is a gift from God to me. I live on a small lake in Florida and daily I say thank you to our loving God for finding this life giving place over 25 years ago. The life in and on and near this little lake always amazes and delights me. But a change of scenery is also a life giving thing and recently I spent ten days going North to New York and Cape Cod, Massachusetts. It was exciting to be near other bodies of water, Sheepshead Bay in Brooklyn where I saw two dear friends and Cape Cod where I also reunited with a dear old friend and explored the dunes and quaint towns, especially Provincetown.

Below is Sheepshead Bay, Brooklyn where we celebrated Laura’s 86th Birthday. I first met Laura in the early 1980’s while teaching at NYU School Of Social Work and volunteering my services in a Shelter for Homeless Women in New York City. Laura was different than most of the women there. A religious Orthodox Jew, Laura became homeless after the loss of her parents and another elderly woman for whom she was a caretaker. As I shared her grief and her story we formed a bond that would last to the present time. Although of different faiths, our common faith in a loving God united us even as a concern for helping others was another bond. It was hard to find the right place for her to live but she made the best of the possible facilities and led a full life of serving others. In the picture with us is Dr. Danielle Nisivoccia Kavesh, also a social worker and social work educator and my friend and then hers over these many years. Last December Laura finally found the best place for her to live-in a Senior Residence sponsored by the Orthodox Jewish Community in Brooklyn. For the first time she feels at home in her home and is truly happy. She can finally attend regular Sabbath Services and enjoys speaking with her Rabbi. She also loves going just a few yards on her walker to the beautiful Bay. Her testimony is that “it took a long while, but God provided exactly what l needed” and she is truly happy and thankful. We are so happy for her! Happy 86th Birthday Dear Laura!

Below Danielle Nisivoccia Kavesh and Laura Rubin celebrating Laura’s August Birthday by the Bay. The waiters are singing “Happy Birthday”!

From New York we went to Provincetown on Cape Cod. This is a place that I loved years ago and I was delighted for the chance to visit again. The quaint houses and the crooked streets full of activity captivated me and the chance to explore the National Seashore, and even put my feet in its chilly water again was a special joy. And it was a special blessing to see my friend Dr. Carol Swenson again in her seasonal home on the Cape. (She and her husband Dave Hoover also live in California). We met half way between her home in Plymouth and Provincetown and spent a wonderful afternoon together. Carol and l first met when we were young Social Work Professors together at NYU School of Social Work. We ,thankfully , have remained close friends over the years as our jobs and lives took us far and wide.

Cape Cod is such a special place for God’s glorious creation to shine. The dunes are tall and wild and the sea beyond is calm and ever-flowing. The trees are bent by the gentle winds and the sky lifts as high as heaven. It was amazing to feel the vitality of the earth and sea joined there once again.

Thank you Dear God

Thank you for your magnificent

Creation,

for the city, and the countryside,

and the sea,

especially for the sea,

flowing from You,

flowing to You eternally.

For your people who persevere,

no matter what befalls, and

who love others

and become our loving friends.

For being with us

when times are good

and life is sweet and

when times are hard

and there are storms

on the peaceful sea,

and life is a challenge

for You are with us through

through it all.

Oh, thank You God!

Below is a stained glass window in the beautiful Church of St. Peter the Apostle in Provincetown. It shows Jesus calming the disciples’ fears, telling them not to be afraid, and walking toward the frightened disciples during a storm on the Sea of Galilee (Matthew 14:22-36). At Jesus’ word, Peter is brave enough to get out of the boat and walk toward Jesus. He keeps his eyes on Jesus and is able to begin to walk toward him on the sea. When he takes his eyes off Jesus for a moment and feels the wind pulling at him he begins to sink and immediately Jesus reaches out to him and saves him.

I pray for the faith to walk toward Jesus when the seas are rough. And if I fall, I pray to be able to reach for his hand and grab hold. I pray for all who have come through stormy seas and still served others like my friend Laura. I pray for all to be blessed and given peace and joy as she was.

May you have a sea-walking kind of faith!

Blessings,

Pastor Judy Lee, RCWP

Good Shepherd Inclusive Catholic Community, Fort Myers, Florida

Bloom! Reflections of a Roman Catholic Woman Priest

Bloom Where You Are Planted

I received this wonderful reminder in the mail and have been thinking about it. Sometimes we are planted-by life and circumstances or Providence. Sometimes we make choices and plant ourselves. Sometimes we are replanted and replanted-yet we survive and can bloom. We can choose to do and be all we can be wherever we are, or we can choose to shutdown and hide our blooming, hoping to bloom behind our walls or to be replanted again. This little reminder suggests that we “bloom with grace” wherever we are. That we make choices to bring beauty and grace to the worlds in which we find ourselves-and perhaps that we look for the beauty in everyone around us. I believe that grace is a gift from God to bring out the best in us and let it shine-no matter who is looking or not! And I believe that as we all bloom the world is a beautiful place of amazing diversity and surprising delightful life.

Mother and the Weeds

My Mother was a special person who could see beauty in everything and everyone. She dressed and she painted, mostly large oil paintings of flowers,with a bright artistic flair. When the residents of her Senior building in Coney Island, Brooklyn, New York were invited to adopt a plot in a nearby lot and plant whatever they liked she was delighted. Some planted vegetables and fruits. Most planted beautiful flowers. My mother looked for and planted weeds. They were as beautiful as any flowers and she thought they needed a showcase. They were all around but unnoticed and unappreciated. She was criticized for this but, in her way, paid it no heed, she knew they were beautiful and that if people could get by what they thought they were, the name they were given-“weed” to what they really were-God given creations-they too could be loved and enjoyed. She never worried about conformity and above all people I knew- she truly bloomed where she was planted. She had to battle mental health and financial issues at a time when medications did little to help. And, I realized, often not soon enough, that her views of the world were a vision to be embraced and emulated. She always saw the good others overlooked. I always hope that I have learned this from her and that by God’s grace, I too can be myself and shine just as I am.

Above Mother is with me at my graduation from Junior High School. She was always at my side through all of my later advanced degree graduations and through thick and thin. Below we are in front of her Senior Building and she will show me her garden plot across the street.

Below is one of her paintings.

In the picture below one of Mom’s paintings is on the left and her picture, painted by my cousin Jack’s wife Arline McGarry on the right. Mother was beautiful and she created beauty wherever she was.

Below are a few so-called weeds on my front lawn. I very carefully make sure they can grow just where they are. In my life I have tried to do the same with the people in my life. Some of the most beautiful children I knew were the middle school kids at the Alternative Learning Center where I worked as a Counselor for a few years here in Fort Myers after a second retiring from my University “Professor of Social Work” Career. Serious behavioral and emotional problems had landed them there but one by one and in small groups they could truly grow and shine. I remember one fellow, Sonny, whose name I spelled Sunny with him to give him credit for the positive joy he could express frequently. Each one had a special shining that could be revealed with care and attention to both the pain and happy places in their lives.

I loved the practice aspects of my long Social Work career as much as the teaching of “how to do it” in my Academic career. And after leaving formal teaching and going into practice again and then Pastoral study and pastoral work I loved, and still love, the opportunity to get to know people in their strengths and struggles, hopes and fears, and to seek the grace of God for their blooming with them.

I hope that today you will join me in finding the beauty and goodness in life where you are even when it is not ideal. I hope that you will find it past the labels given and truly appreciate things and people for what and who they are despite and beyond their “labels”. I hope you will see the beauty in the so-called weeds. I hope that you will join me in blooming where you are planted!

Blessings,

Pastor Judy Lee, RCWP

Rev. Dr. Judith AB Lee, Good Shepherd Ministries, Fort Myers, Florida

8/15/2023

Todos, All, All, All Are Welcome: Reflections of a Roman Catholic Woman Priest

“IN THE CHURCH THERE IS ROOM FOR EVERYONE”-POPE FRANCIS-WORLD YOUTH DAY 8/6/2023

Pope Francis, accompanied by Cardinal Manuel Clemente of Lisbon, Portugal, arrives at Tejo Park in Lisbon for the closing World Youth Day Mass Aug. 6, 2023. (CNS photo/Lola Gomez) From ncronline.org.

DIOS NOS AMA- GOD LOVES US

In his address to a huge welcoming crowd of 1.5 million youth and others gathered for the 2023 Catholic World Youth day in Portugal today Pope Francis emphasized God’s LOVE and the INCLUSIVITY of the church. He said ” In the Church everyone is welcome” and he organized a resounding chant of “todos, todos, todos”-everyone, everyone, everyone!

He said “God loves you and accepts you just as you are, not as society wants you to be.” What a message to those of us of difference- of all colors, cultures, socioeconomic classes,genders, sexual orientations and -who are , for example, members of the LGBTQ community! Fr. James Martin, always supportive of our community, tweeted “And this does mean the LBGTQ Community” just in case anyone was still wondering. Pope Francis also said “follow the example of Jesus and be sensitive to the situations all around us, to other cultures, to the pleas of the poor and vulnerable, and the cry of the wounded and mistreated earth”(ncronline.org). He spoke clearly of loving everyone, noting that love dirties the hands-it is not an antiseptic act from afar. He said not to be afraid of loving, it is a risk, but worth it. He mentioned a huge wave on a nearby beach and suggested that we catch, ride and surf the wave of young people and all people interested in following Jesus now. He concluded by telling the youth “not to fear” and it was announced that the next World Youth Day would be in Seoul Korea in 2027.

Let us hear and enjoy the Good News spoken by Pope Francis today.

ALL are loved and cherished by God. ALL are to be included in the Church, and the church everywhere. God’s priorities are with the poor and vulnerable and our love is to be active and reaching out. God also cares for our precious environment and wants us to take good care of her. Exploitation of the labor of the poor and the gifts of the environment are concerns of the Pontiff and of everyone who says they love God- to love God is to love what and whom God loves-EVERYONE and all of Creation.

Let us then continue to love one another and God’s precious world as we go forward into this new week,

Love and blessings,

Pastor Judy Lee, RCWP

Good Shepherd Ministries of SW Florida-8/6/2023