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Happy, Blessed New Year! Reflections of a Roman Catholic Woman Priest

If you are reading this you are blessed to enter another New Year- 2024. Wow! For those of us who thought entering the Millenium year, 2000, was a major blessing we are now amazed that it is almost a quarter of a century after that. Thanks be to God for time marching on, and us with it. And thanks be to God for the events of the past year that have brought us here, and for the hope of a new year.

Harry Gary, friend and member of our Good Shepherd Ministry wrote me this morning with wishes and prayers for the new year emphasizing “It is NEW!” Yes, there is something about new chances for life that are God’s most wonderful gift! Having just celebrated his 72nd birthday Mr. Gary was thankful for all that brought him to that moment, including his connection to our Ministry-from the beginning in 2007 when he did not have his own home. His last eight years have had wonderful stability in affordable housing and several medical challenges. He is particularly thankful for his home and for coming through each of those challenges and for the strength and faith to deal with the changes in vision that are a current issue. Mr. Gary is such a man of faith and hope that it is always uplifting to walk and talk with him. In the picture below taken when we still had our house church site, Mr. Gary is standing with a black shirt and cross on. The young man next to him is Quay Crews, who is now his neighbor in the Ohio Place Housing Complex. Mr. Gary is a church father in his life and both enjoy being neighbors.

As I look at the picture above, I am also saddened to report that we lost three of our dear members to heaven within the last few years. I know that they are enjoying glory with Jesus after difficult lives here. But our church members miss them still. Grandma Jolinda Harmon who brought countless new members to the church is with Jesus now. Lauretta Rasmussen, like Gary was one of our oldest and most faithful members. She, and Joe Baker, striped shirt behind her, both loved their housing and their relationships in the community and with family, and both succumbed to cancer. In this picture we were celebrating the life of Pastor Judy Beaumont. When Lauretta was passing she held my hand and said that she was happy to be joining Pastor Judy Beaumont who helped her find the path to eternal life. I can just see Judy welcoming Lauretta and Joe and our other deceased members and friends to the heavenly kindom where they are with Love forever. Judy was close with my beloved lifelong friend Jean Cornella Bauer who passed suddenly two years ago and I am sure they are together again now. And my childhood friend Jean Tracy Foreman was welcomed home by Judy too. I miss them so much but my heart is still full with their love. Below are Jean Cornella Bauer and Judy and me.

We are happy for the young girls in the first picture, Quay’s cousins, who are teenagers now. And for all of our young people like Quay’s siblings who are wishing us Happy New Year this year. It is a good feeling to know that faith continues through the generations. Below are Maya Rismay Cummings and her daughter Kimora. I am blessed as they live here in Fort Myers and faithfully visit and keep in touch. Judy Beaumont and I helped mentor Maya and Felice and to help raise their older siblings, Perdita, Marley and Channel while living in Connecticut. Maya’s sister Felice and her son Daniel (Bubs) visit too but they live in Connecticut. Marley, Maya’s older brother, and wife Jen and his three children also live in Connecticut and visit here. It is such fun to enjoy the younger generations.

Below are Maya and Kimora who visited yesterday, 12/31/2023. Kimora especially loved visiting with our cat Finn.

Below are Felice and Bubs, and Marley and his daughter MyaLee. He also has two sons, Marley Jr. and Matthew Jude.

How blessed we are to enjoy the love and faith of the younger generations.

We are also so blessed to be able to continue our ministry here in Fort Myers. In the pictures below, taken in early December we see Brenda and her roommate Terri and one of her dogs. Brenda has been with our Good Shepherd Ministry like Mr. Gary since the beginning in 2007. Here she is in her own home with Terri and four pets and our member Carol Schauf and I are visiting them for Christmas. Carol is a wonderful mentor for Brenda.

We are thankful that our Good Shepherd relationships are active now.

We are also so thankful for the friends and family who remain loving in our lives. Below are Danielle and Laura whom we visited in New York. Laura, in the pink shirt, is now in a wonderful Orthodox Jewish Residential setting where she finally feels at home and can practice her faith. We are so happy for her and for the love and care that Danielle is able to give her. Indeed we are family more than friends.

And we are so thankful for family that continues to love and support us. At my age there is more family in heaven than here, but Jackie and Mike and Cousin Bob and family are still there to hold onto me here.

Above are Jackie and Mike with me.  And below are Cousin Bob and his family and our cousin Lillian Dougherty Ebner as well.

And so we end this year and begin our new year 2024 thankful for love, for friends and family human and pet as well, and ministry, We are mindful of those, human and pet, that have gone home to God and so thankful for their lives. And we are so grateful for God’s glorious creation that renews us each day. And we especially thank God for those who remain with us for 2024.

THANK YOU, LOVING GOD, FOR ALL THE GIFTS OF 2023 AND THE HOPES FOR 2024. THANKYOU FOR THOSE WE HAVE LOST HERE AND FOR THOSE WHO REMAIN WITH US. THANK YOU FOR LIFE IN ALL OF ITS SHAPES, FORMS AND ESSENCES. THANK YOU FOR LOVE THAT IS FOREVER. THANK YOU FOR YESTERDAY, TODAY AND TOMORROW IN YOUR LOVE.

BLESSINGS TO ALL AS WE WELCOME IN 2024, AND ALL THAT IS NEW AND GOOD TO COME.

LOVE AND BLESSINGS,

Pastor Judy Lee, RCWP

Good Shepherd Ministries of Southwest Florida

January 1, 2024

What It’s All About-Living the Sacraments with the Living Sacrament of God’s People

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Some of Our Children Gathering For Church-Happy To Be In God’s House

The children hurried in to the church. They were early and after greeting us warmly asked me “Pastor, can you come into the room with us?” “The room” is their Sunday School room and as we had a little time, I went. Each one grabbed her favorite item,tambourine included, and started singing: “Jesus Loves Me”.  I sang with them and told them they were right,Jesus did love them very much and I do too! They asked help to start little art projects and settled down freeing me to vest. Well, almost. Donnie ran up to me and hugged me with her usual joy, she told me about a fall she had and asked prayers for herself and her husband who was recently hospitalized. Another mother arrived with her family and we talked quietly about her grief for a hospitalized and seriously ill young adult child. She asked me to meet with the family after church and join them at the bedside later. Tania arrived smiling broadly and thanked Pastor Judy B and me for shepherding her all day Friday. We signed her out of the psychiatric hospital where she had spent over ten days “getting herself back”, as she said, with the help of medications. We were with her until, surmounting many problems almost miraculously, she got an apartment, with her electricity turned on and a bed top sleep on. She wanted to tell the church that God did not abandon her and will not abandon them. Nancy came with the baby we baptized now walking and everyone was so glad to see her. Our member Judy Alves, a retired lawyer arrived with the hot meal and got it ready for serving after church. Dr. Joe Cudjoe helped her, and his wife Pearl and I talked about her Junior class. Some of our old friends returned today. Hank Tessandori began the hymn as we vested. The 40 or so chairs were soon filled and we were ready to begin,  Several new homeless people joined us and were warmly welcomed.

The sacrament of the church, the people of God, prepared to meet the sacrament of Christ with us, the body of Christ  becoming the body of Christ. They came in joy and sorrow, in exhaustion and in expectation. And we, the priests, the pastors, the women God has called for this job were once again humbled beyond words and in awe of Christ with us.  The songs were sung with enthusiasm. The prayers were said and the readings were proclaimed. Our High School senior, Natasha, has become an excellent lector. The homily was given with time for the people to join in. Mr. Gary, our elder, had lost a son to violence last week and shared how his faith was what got him through this. For him, and for Tania and Tim and Nate who spoke Christ is not only their shepherd king who showed us how to serve one another, but a best friend who is always there with and for them.  Our time of intercession included prayers that wrenched from the hearts of those who were hurting and sprang from the lips of the faithful. Our hearts stirred as our six year old Joelle prayed fervently for a sick relative and as Nate prayed “to God, our Mother and Father” for Mr. Gary’s grieving family and all of our sick members. Dr. Joe prayed for peace in the troubled places of the world and Hank prayed for the healing of the church.

As Pastor Judy B. prepared us for the Eucharist she welcomed each one there to the Table and explained the significance of the water, ourselves, in the wine-one with Christ. Once again as we served communion we were in awe of the transformation of ourselves and our people through and into the body and blood of Christ in service to one another and the world. I cannot describe the holiness of these moments, experienced at each Eucharist. And the people sang with all their hearts, “Thank you , God, thank you God, we just want to than you God. Eucharist!

After the final hymn we asked our teens Keeron and Keeondra and also Robert an older gentleman to stand for a birthday blessing and to receive gifts from the congregation.  Shy but delighted they beamed as we sang “May the good Lord bless you…”.

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Then the church was transformed into a dining room and our second eucharistic meal was served and gratefully received.

As the meal was served about ten other homeless and hungry individuals joined us. And here we had the miracle of the loaves and fishes. We would not have had enough food for the last ten people but Judy Alves’ husband, Jim Pelstring ,saw the need and hurried to buy enough to meet the need. All were fed and there were leftovers to take away!

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I mingled with  our members and with several more new guests arriving.

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Old friends and new friends

After Sunday School I met with our dear family who faced the critical illness of their young member.  We talked and shared feelings that had been pent up. We held hands and prayed. Later we joined them at the bedside in the hospital where seven family members gathered. All prayed as we anointed with blessed oil and prayed with this young person who rallied with this healing rite, and love. As there was already a baptism scheduled and missed because of illness, we all decided to go ahead and baptize then and there.  All present took part.  I cannot describe for you the peace and joy that supplanted the fear, anxiety and grief-words are not sufficient. The gloom was literally lifted like a dark cloud rising and light and joy replaced it. We sang, “Take Me To The River To Be Baptized” adding a stanza-“This one is the righteous and shall see God!”  We ended with “Oh Happy Day” and much closeness and love.

Three Sacraments in one Sunday-Eucharist and eucharist; the healing rite and baptism. No, five, the sacrament of the church, the people of God, and the sacrament of love included. How blessed are we. How amazed and moved we are to be called to this priesthood, the priesthood of all believers. How thankful Judy B and I are for the privilege of serving God’s holy people. Thanks be to God! Happy Thanksgiving to all.

Pastor Judy Lee, ARCWP

Good Shepherd Inclusive Catholic Community,

Fort Myers, Florida